Parenting Plan Explorer

Walk into custody knowing where you both stand.

The Parenting Plan Explorer lets you and your co-parent answer the same parenting plan questions independently, then compare your answers side by side to see where you already agree and what still needs discussion.

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Free to start. Full Report: $99

Takes about 3 minutes per parent.

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See what the other parent actually wants. Side by side. Every topic.

Once you both answer, your Report compares your parenting plan preferences side by side. See where you agree, where your answers differ, and which topics still need discussion before you build your parenting plan.

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Your parenting plan for Lucy

3 of 7 close. 2 need a real conversation. Reviewed together.

Alignment across 7 topicsUpdated today
Agree · 2Close · 3Gap · 2
Topic
You
Marcus
Aligned
Legal custody

Who makes major decisions about health, education, and religion.

Joint, equal voice
Joint, equal voice
Yes
Physical custody

Where the child lives day-to-day.

Joint physical
Joint physical
Yes
Schedule

The week-to-week parenting time split.

2-2-5-5 rotation
Every other week
No
Holidays

Who has the kids for each major holiday.

Almost
Christmas Eve
Alternate
Alternate
Christmas Day
You
You
New Year's Day
You
Alternate
Thanksgiving
Alternate
Alternate
Halloween
You
Them
Child's Birthday
You
You
Mother's Day
You
You
Exchanges

Where and how handoffs happen.

Through school/daycare
At other parent's home
Almost
Vacation time

Extended time away with each parent.

14 days, 30 days notice
21 days, 14 days notice
Almost
Child support

Monthly payment between parents.

No child support
You pay $800/month
No
Your Options

There is more than one path to a custody order.

The more you already agree on, the less there is to resolve. That can mean fewer conversations, less professional help, and less time and money spent getting to an agreement.

The Parenting Plan Explorer shows what's settled and what still needs work, helping you choose whether to work it out together, use mediation, or get legal support.

Decide to separate

Do you agree on the plan?

The conversation is uncomfortable. Avoiding it is expensive.

Where KidSplit helps
Agreement

Mostly aligned. File directly, or finalize in mediation.

File in court
Judge review
Disagreement

Significant gaps. Enter with a clear picture of what to fight for.

Mediator or lawyers
Court hearing if needed
Signed court order

Same destination, two very different routes.
Both paths can end in the same signed order — the difference is usually how much is left to resolve along the way.

How it works

Three steps.

01

You answer first.

Answer parenting plan questions covering legal and physical custody, schedules, holidays, vacations, exchanges, and child support. It takes about 3 minutes, and your answers stay private.

02

You invite the other parent.

They answer the same questions independently, without seeing your answers.

03

You get your Report.

Once both parents finish, see where you agree for free and get the picture of what's close and what isn't. Unlock the Full Report for $99 to see the details behind those differences.

Pricing

$99.
Know what needs solving before billable hours begin.

Family lawyers average $344/hour in the U.S.1 The Full Report shows where you agree, where you're close, and where you differ, so professional time can focus on the issues that actually need help.

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No credit card required· Free alignment check· Full Report $99

¹ Clio Legal Trends Report, 2025 national average.

FAQ

Common questions.

One parent answers a short set of parenting plan questions, then invites the other parent. They answer the same questions independently. Once both are done, each parent can see where they agree for free and choose whether to unlock the Full Report.

Once both parents complete their questions, you can see the areas where your answers match. The Full Report shows where you're close, where you differ, and the answers behind those differences.

No. Each parent decides independently whether to purchase the Full Report for $99. One parent's purchase does not require the other parent to pay.

You pay nothing. Payment is only available after both parents complete their questions.

No. Each parent answers independently without seeing the other's responses. Once both finish, you can see your areas of agreement for free. Detailed differences are included in the Full Report.

No. The Parenting Plan Explorer is not a parenting plan, custody agreement, or court order. It helps you understand where you agree and what still needs to be resolved before creating an agreement yourself or working with a mediator or attorney.

Yes. Your Full Report is saved to your account for 12 months and can be downloaded as a PDF.

No. KidSplit is not a law firm and does not provide legal advice. Its tools and content are for informational purposes only.

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Most parents agree on more than they think.

The most valuable 3 minutes in this entire process.

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