KidSplit

Mediation? Lawyer fight? Or a custody agreement now?

Legal fights drain families financially and emotionally. We help parents create custody agreements without conflict or expensive legal fees.

Family custody agreement illustration

What does the process look like?

Answer questions

You both tell us what you want

Answer questions about custody and share what matters most to you.

Compromise engine

KidSplit finds the middle ground

Our technology automatically creates an agreement that works for both of you.

Agreement

Review and get your agreement

After a review period, the agreement will be ready to download.

The only requirement

You both need to commit to this process. No need to talk, argue or negotiate. Do it when you want, where you want. If you can't, go spend your wealth, this is not your place.

KidSplit interface showing legal custody decision options with insights from real families

How does KidSplit work?

Both parents complete our easy online form at their own time, covering all the core components of a custody agreement:

  • • Legal and physical custody
  • • Schedule
  • • Holidays and vacation time
  • • Exchanges and transportation
  • • Communication
  • • Special circumstances

Our system finds the compromises between your preferences. You'll both have time for a private review period - if you agree on changes, the agreement updates automatically and is ready to download.

Real insights to think through every decision

At every step, we provide insights from parents and kids who have lived it so you can make informed decisions.

"At some point, I asked to stop following the custody order. My mom took it as a win, but I loved my dad. It wasn't about that. I just wanted to be a teenager without a rigid schedule."
I was 3 when my parents divorced
"I didn't realize how much control the other parent could have over my life until I was already in it. I wish we'd set clear rules around things like vacation time, early pickups, and what counts as a shared expense."
Parent of 1 boy
"Nobody ever asked what we wanted. We stopped following the custody agreement because it didn't work for us."
I was 11 when my parents divorced
"I spent thousands on my girls' custody. Going to family court felt like deciding their future in a drive-thru."
Parent of 2 girls

Understand what's ahead

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Our founder lived through this nightmare. He built this so you don't have to

When I faced separation, creating a parenting plan cost me $15,000 in lawyers, legal fees, and mediation. It also meant countless hours of stress and wasted time.

The process created so much noise that I couldn't be there for my son with the energy I wanted to give him. I knew there had to be a better way.

That's why I built KidSplit. To help parents align on parenting plans without conflict, stress, or massive costs.

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